2008.07.12 02:31:55
You notice something about her, the location or the situation that gives you an opening (I prefer "about her" as this makes a very personal approach, although to personal and it will scare her off, so be careful)?
You will notice that people in rapport with each other will have a natural rhythm or flow that matches each other. I guess your next question would be, ôwhat should I be matching and mirroring?ö If I were totally mercenary I would tell you to buy my special Making Instant Connections report. Simple really? No need for cheesy chat up lines, a nice easy flow to the conversation and a great way to build deeper levels of rapport.